Her

This very reekingly familiar behaviour of hers each time she chooses to bounce back while also pretending to show more command on what she posesses, her actions still give the impression of someone unshroudingly coping up with things that they are disturbed by emotionally. Her internal sadness makes her vulnerable to any difficulties that she confronts. And just so she can cope up with them, she ends up being stubborn.
Her problem is actually her fear of enforcement of feelings that might agitate her as she is actually very tender-hearted inside, hyper sensitive and if anything is imposed on her, she has the potential to compromise but then again... She isn't really compromising because she is not content with her response. She is vigilent, and she trusts her senses.
She also chooses to judge herself as some one inferior if she observes someone who may possibly be struggling to make very humane contact with her and inspite of this, if they end up looking better off than her in any way... She does responds, because she wouldnt want to hurt you, but in the end it's just her curious instinctiveness that made her respond as well as she would have.
Although, her drive in her life is simply small happinesses and moments she cherishes and those she very intelligibly protects and is mighty posessive of. Some times, though, she ends up showing such intense vulnerability towards her sources of happiness that she falls on them, head over heels ready to form boundaries.... and these boundaries are only her emotions...
Once, if, they are lost due to any circumtances not in her control - like, fate, they finish... and she is at the same point again in her life... ashes of hurt, in her heart.... the dust of emotions rampant in her mind...
And all she could gather from the experience that fate made her witness, she falls low... so weak.. so shallow... until she realizes how life has nurtured her... and she stands up on her feet again - once again, ready to look at the world in the eye... and posess and gather all she can.. with her mind... with her heart... open her arms wide enough to conquer and posess all that she can gather in them...